{"id":259680,"date":"2021-04-21T11:37:02","date_gmt":"2021-04-21T10:37:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/?p=259680"},"modified":"2021-04-20T13:39:44","modified_gmt":"2021-04-20T12:39:44","slug":"unconditional-self-compassion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/autocompasion-incondicional\/","title":{"rendered":"Unconditional self-compassion: love yourself as you want to be loved"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The <strong>unconditional self-compassion<\/strong> is not waiting for others to love you.<\/p>\n<p>No doubt something that is also necessary <strong>from the perspective of a society<\/strong> that always looks outward to get us recognized.<\/p>\n<p>But if you think about it, <strong>expect to be loved<\/strong> others is an expectation that<a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/personal-goals-for-2021\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> aims to<\/a> something very different.<\/p>\n<p>Call it what you will.<\/p>\n<p>Validation.<\/p>\n<p>Improvement of the <a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/self-esteem-confidence\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">self-esteem<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-259625\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/servir-o-ayudar-en-coaching.jpg?resize=700%2C467&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Serve or assist in coaching\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/servir-o-ayudar-en-coaching.jpg 700w, https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/servir-o-ayudar-en-coaching-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 700px, 100vw\" \/>Acknowledgement.<\/p>\n<p>However,<strong> many times you forget<\/strong> that, deep down, what you expect from others has to do with what you expect from them. <strong>maybe you're not giving yourself<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Unconditional self-compassion.<\/p>\n<p>It's possible that self-pity sounds to you like you need to <strong>feel sorry for you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing could be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/mundo\/noticias-36957670\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">self-pity lowers stress<\/a> between what you expect others to give you and what you give yourself. <strong>unconditionally<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>With <a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/acceptance-coaching-tool\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">acceptance<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>By lowering that <strong>internal criticism<\/strong> that makes you feel so bad sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>And what you might be looking for<strong> that unconditional love<\/strong> in others.<\/p>\n<p>You also gain something very important.<\/p>\n<p>Do not make the <strong>victim role<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>A form of <strong>escape from other things<\/strong>\u00a0that are hidden behind and that can be the real key to your happiness.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What is unconditional self-compassion?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Be <strong>aware and accept<\/strong> that we are going through a bad time and <strong>give us love and understanding for it<\/strong>is unconditional self-pity.<\/p>\n<p>In practice, it is what <strong>you would do with someone else<\/strong> who was going through what you're going through.<\/p>\n<p>Unconditional self-compassion is <strong>to offer you kindness and understanding<\/strong> at any time or under any circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>No strings attached.<\/p>\n<p>It's as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p>And complicated at the same time.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-259682 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/autocompasion-sin-condiciones.jpg?resize=400%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"unconditional self-compassion\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/autocompasion-sin-condiciones.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/autocompasion-sin-condiciones.jpg?resize=16%2C12&amp;ssl=1 16w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In a world where you have been taught to <strong>put you in perspective<\/strong> of what <strong>others think of you<\/strong>This is a complicated act to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>But imagine for a moment what would happen <strong>if you didn't have that need<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>What would you be like?<\/p>\n<p>How would you change <strong>your relationship<\/strong> with others?<\/p>\n<p>And with what you do?<\/p>\n<p>Have <strong>compassion for oneself<\/strong> is not to feel pity and sink deeper into the pit.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary.<\/p>\n<p>It is a <strong>single exit lane<\/strong> to feel like what you are.<\/p>\n<p>Don't think that <strong>it's selfish to love you<\/strong> as you would like others to love you.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary.<\/p>\n<p>That is <strong>the key to want you<\/strong> to others unconditionally.<\/p>\n<p>Completely.<\/p>\n<p>Something that will <strong>make a difference<\/strong> not only in your relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Also in how you feel and in <a href=\"https:\/\/davidperalta.es\/estres-del-musico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the stress that this demand generates in you<\/a> constant <strong>affection and validation<\/strong> external.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Differences between self-esteem and self-compassion<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Although it may seem like the same thing, <strong>self-esteem and self-compassion<\/strong> are two different things.<\/p>\n<p>Self-esteem has <strong>an evaluation and judgment component<\/strong> that self-pity does not have.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/what-coaching-is-and-what-it-can-help-you-with\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">In coaching we look for<\/a> the roots and motivations of both for <strong>strike a balance<\/strong> necessary.<\/p>\n<p>The <strong>self-compassion is acceptance<\/strong> of how you are with your circumstances, doubts and sufferings.<\/p>\n<p>But also of your <strong>positive qualities<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-259385 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/rendimiento-laboral-coaching.jpg?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"job performance coaching David Peralta Alegre\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/rendimiento-laboral-coaching.jpg 600w, https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/rendimiento-laboral-coaching-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 600px, 100vw\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Self-esteem seeks <strong>your value from differentiation<\/strong> with others.<\/p>\n<p>That's why in this last<strong> the judgment of others<\/strong> is too heavy to be managed in a healthy way at times.<\/p>\n<p>You can have a <strong>high self-esteem<\/strong> but don't love each other at all.<\/p>\n<p>But if you <strong>you want how you want to be loved<\/strong>self-esteem takes a back seat.<\/p>\n<p>Because self-pity <strong>does not distort<\/strong> your essence.<\/p>\n<p>Becoming your own <a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/self-fulfilling-prophecy-coaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">self-fulfilling prophecy<\/a> of satisfaction with you.<\/p>\n<p>Self-esteem can make it into <strong>absence of self-pity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>And self-pity<strong> unconditional<\/strong> is one of the doors to happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Yours.<\/p>\n<p>That of others.<\/p>\n<p>On the way to the <strong>self-pity<\/strong> unconditional,<a href=\"https:\/\/creativecoaching.es\/en\/serving-or-assisting-with-coaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> the coaching<\/a> is an opportunity.<\/p>\n<p>To <strong>love you the way you want to be loved<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Do you dare to take the plunge?<\/p>\n\n<span class=\"et_bloom_bottom_trigger\"><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La autocompasi\u00f3n incondicional no es esperar a que te quieran los dem\u00e1s. Sin duda algo que tambi\u00e9n es necesario desde la perspectiva de una sociedad que siempre mira hacia fuera para conseguir que nos reconozcan. Pero si lo piensas, esperar que te quieran los dem\u00e1s es una espera que tiene por objetivo algo muy diferente. 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